Monthly Wait List and Updates - August 2011
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| Southwest Transplant Alliance | 5489 Blair Rd | Dallas | TX | 75231 |
It feels therapeutic to write this. Not sure why, but it is the way I'm wired. To share. To collaborate. To feel. To do.The end of this week has been one of the toughest "grief" weeks I think I have had since Taylor died.Why? Good question, but after some therapy, time to talk and most importantly (for me), some time by myself to reflect; it seems to be a perfect storm of emotions and circumstances.
- a fabulous week for Taylor's Gift Foundation in Naperville, IL last week
- Taylor's 15th birthday was on Tuesday
- preparation and reflecting on the upcoming Easter holiday
To make a very long story short; I began to feel horrible Monday afternoon of this week. Horrible.....better described for me is lazy, heavy, slow, tired, down. The best way I can describe this feeling is by comparing it to the lead Xray vest you wear when you take an xray at the doctor's office or hospital. Except for me this week, the vest was a full body suit. It began as a fully lead helmet and covered my entire body down to my feet. I really didn't feel it in my toes, but it seemed to rest around the tops of my feet. Heavy. Much more than the 15 pounds per square inch that air places on our bodies. More like 1000 pounds per square inch; except I have no way to prove or test that....Thank God for my wonderful and beautiful wife Tara. I've said it before, but we have become closer since Taylor has died. It really hurts to say that (much less type it). But what it means is that we are really able to communicate. We are able to understand that we grieve in different ways and give each other the space and closeness that requires. Thank God for our marriage.Also, thank you to my friends that check in on me. That ask me how I'm doing and really mean it. That know that when I don't get back to them immediately, it's because I just don't want to....and they understand.What I've learned about my grieving is that I need to be on my own. Need to be by myself. I need to explore. I need to reflect. Write. Think. Observe. Feel.The way that manifested today was through my need to be alone and explore. So, I started my day with a very strong cup of coffee and made a plan. I decided that I needed to process and I needed to do some "travelling". So how do you do that in Dallas? I did it by choosing to take public transportation as my sole source of getting around. I decided I wanted to take in the Modern Art Museum of Ft. Worth.Once that was planted in my head, I had to make a plan. I figured out how to get to the Trinity Railway Express in Dallas and once arriving in Ft. Worth, how to grab the T bus line to the museum.A highlight for me today was seeing my second Rothko in person (Light Cloud, Dark Cloud - 1957). I've been drawn to Rothko's works since Tara and I first travelled to Washington, DC together when we were graduating from Texas A&M. I bought a print of his Untitled - 1949 without even realizing who the artist was. I was just drawn to it. Honestly, I felt like it was chosen for me. Like his works were supposed to be a part of my life somehow.I spent good time at the museum observing, writing, drawing and thinking. So helpful. As was the train ride back to Dallas.Grief is a strange and personal thing. I am honestly thankful that I can have some time to process the way I need to. It is this that drives me to help others.However, I am keenly aware that I can't help others until I've helped myself.The last few days have proved that. So with all suffering, it must be purposeful. It needs to be honest. Real.I am blessed.
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| By Whitson Gordon Top 10 Uses for Twitter (That Aren't Self-Indulgent)
We've shared some of our non-breakfast related Twitter uses before, but over the past few years Twitter has evolved, grown more popular, and we've just discovered more clever and productive uses for it. Some of these you may recognize, but even the ones we've discussed before may have been updated, so be sure to check them all out if you're looking to upgrade your Twitter usage. 10. Quickly Access Productivity Tools
9. Get Search Results for Timely News
8. Find a Job
7. Get Up to the Minute Updates on Your Favorite Software
6. Use it as a Quick-Access Cloud Notebook
5. Discover News and Articles You Otherwise Wouldn't Have
4. Get Alerts and Inspiration on Pretty Much Anything
3. Control DIY Home Automation Projects
2. Get Instant Customer Support
1. Get Specific Answers and Advice from a Knowledgeable Pool
These are some of our favorite clever uses we've discovered over the years, but there's bound to be more out there. So if you have a clever way of using Twitter (productive or not), be sure to share it with us in the comments below. | April 2nd, 2011 Top Stories |
This email went out to the Taylor's Gift email database earlier today. I want to make sure everyone has a chance to see this great news!
You are receiving this because you have requested to volunteer or be contacted byTaylor's Gift Foundation
Hello Taylor's Gift friends!
To help celebrate April's Organ Donor Awareness Month, Taylor's Gift and Verizon are partnering and launching a fully integrated marketing plan to recognize and honor local DFW heroes! This program officially begins on Monday, 4/4, but you just might see our "soft launch" today!
Verizon is providing amazing assets to help us spread our Mission:
This would not be possible without the marketing and executive team at Verizon; the TV creative and production by our friends at www.FirehouseAgency.com (twitter: @firehouseagency) andwww.FastCuts.tv (@fast_cuts).
Lastly, so many at Taylor's Gift help pull this together! Special thank you to Pauline Stein, Linda Medina and Dina Conte Schulz.
Be a Hero. Be an organ donor.